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Open Question: How to solve roommate problem? and more... Open Question: How to solve roommate problem?Hi everyone. This could be the world's hardest problem to solve. I have lived with 7 other roommates in the past and we were able to get along and live together like friends. Two months ago I moved to Los Angeles. The manager placed me into an apartment with a new roommate. This new roommate was a very nice guy at the beginning. However, 2 months later he became an asshole that caused problems between us. My roommate and I have gotten into trouble silently and I do not know what caused it. We were very friendly with each other for the first couple of weeks since I moved in, and all of the sudden he began to create problems with me. Because he never share his thoughts with me, I never knew what was bothering him and how should I behave in order to gain his favor. Starting last week he came home and began to smash the desk, sighing, and kick the floor. I reported his abnormal behavior to the manager. According to our housing manager, this guy was delivering all his anger at me for working at my own desk. The manager told me this guy just got a job and has to work 12 hours everyday. When he came home, he doesn't like to see someone else in the apartment. Later on, he tried every possible method to drive me out of the apartment. Such methods included locking doors when I wasn't home. This guy refused to communicate with me on these problems. Because my roommate never speaks, there is no way for me understand him and work out our problems. The tension between us is keep on rising and I don't want to keep up this "silent" conflict. Sometimes I really want to beat him to death until he starts communicate with me. Please help me with: 1.) My roommate has a stressful job and turned into a rude asshole. He started all the conflicts between me and him. Due to his nature of quietness I'm not sure what I did wrong, and there is no way for us to discuss what's going on. What should I do??? 2.) I already told the manager 3 times requesting to move out, but the manager refused to do so. She said it would be hard to switch me out due to the contract. What should I do??? 3.) The manager somehow is on my roommate's side and was speaking for him. What should I do??? Thanks Open Question: Where can I find an agnostic-friendly christian church in LA?My boyfriend is a Christian looking for a church to work with in the Los Angeles area, specifically around Pasadena or maybe somewhere else in the Valley. Ideally this church wouldn't reject him for being in a relationship with an agnostic, and I would really like it if they were accepting enough that I could attend, as a learning opportunity (without people pushing to convert me) and try to get involved. Does anyone know of any churches like this in the area, or a way that I could find one? More Recent Articles
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